Sally, West Bromwich
It sounds a bit pathetic, but we'd never used 'sex toys' before and so it was a bit embarrassing. But we got over it and so I would say to anyone 'just go for it'. ComeClose is fantastic! It really works and you can totally trust it. It's such a nice feel. Thank you. I love my man even more now!
Gemma, Basildon
To be honest, when I first saw the ComeClose I'd ordered I thought they must be having a laugh — it was bigger than I thought and I didn't fancy using it. But it was all right! It went on easy, it felt good on him and me and now we wouldn't be without it.
Nicola, Middlesex
My husband and I were contacted following a workshop at the Endometriosis UK Open Day about "How to manage painful sex" by ComeClose. Having been recently diagnosed with endo we willingly entered the trial for ComeClose and were very pleased to receive the ComeClose product a short time later. Sadly, painful love making was for me just a normal part of our relationship, in fact as I was a virgin prior to meeting my husband I did not even realise that the pain I experienced was not a "normal" part of sex which all women experienced. I found it very hard to talk to anyone about it even my husband who I trust implicitly. I cried with joy following using the ComeClose for the first time, I did not realise that making love could be pain free. We now use the ComeClose during the more painful times of my cycle or if the pain is at its worse, it means that we can make love without pain and with pleasure. I have already recommended the ComeClose to fellow endo sufferers and will continue to do so. My husband Graham wishes to add:
Graham, Middlesex
From a male point of view....The ComeClose product felt strange at first, but this feeling was soon overcome when I saw it make a real difference to the pleasure and joy, experienced by my wife, with little difference to my experience of having sex. If anything it improved our love making because firstly we could make love, and secondly I could relax knowing I was not causing or adding to her pain. I would highly recommend ComeClose to anyone affected by endometriosis.
Nicola (Middlesex) again... after conceiving twins!
From a pregnancy perspective I know that the fact that ComeClose creates a bit more distance from the cervix has helped both of us enjoy sex more as my husband does not feel that he is going to hurt the babies, which while we know this should not be possible, helps him to relax while making love.
Peter, Basingstoke
I tried ComeClose with my girlfriend and I found it liberating. I didn't have to be careful about depth or angle and she didn't have to worry about 'guiding' me. We could both just relax and let ourselves go. I think it gave me a bit more sensitivity and we both felt more connected after using it.
Melanie, Leeds
A few years ago there was this guy I was really keen on - we had a lot in common and he was funny, attractive and sooo sexy. Well after a couple of dates things got a bit more physical and I couldn't wait for the third date! That was the first time I realised size could be a problem. It hurt so much even though he really turned me on. If ComeClose had been available then, I'd have gladly paid a month's salary for it! But it wasn't and I didn't feel comfortable talking about the 'problem', so I just made excuses not to see him again. Now he's married. Anyway, I just wanted to say thank you for inventing ComeClose. I found your web site by chance so I bought myself a ComeClose - and if it ever happens again, I'll be prepared.
Emma, London
I've been married for over 12 years and am very happy but... I think it probably started after our second child that sex got to be a bit of a chore. It used to be great, relaxed, fun and orgasmic. Then I suppose with tiredness and having one eye and ear open listening for babies crying I was never really ‘there’, and as my mind wasn’t there, my body wasn’t either — and that's when I noticed my husband would often hurt me when he was thrusting inside. It isn't deliberate, he's very caring, but unless he's very controlled he hits my cervix and boy does that hurt. He'd ask me if I was alright and I'd say 'yes I was fine' because I wanted him to come and finish quickly, but I never relax because I’m expecting the next 'hit'. Everyone just says lubricate — but that’s not the real problem — it's relaxing. A friend I confided in recommended I try ComeClose. My husband was understanding because he knew he often hit my cervix and was very happy to try it. He said sex still felt good — in fact he liked the feel of the ComeClose gripping him (so that was a bonus!) and he could get passionate without worrying about hurting me. I (for the first time since the babies were born) was totally relaxed, knowing that it was impossible for him to hurt me, however passionate and fast and furious it got. It was bliss. I cried, I feel like I have my husband and my body back. I really never expected to enjoy sex again.
